Life is a test on how you treat people.
Today I learned that one of our cub scouts' dad passed away suddenly without warning on Saturday. They were together as a family at a family cabin. I wonder what was the last communication between the dad and his wife and kids. It made me think back over my life especially the last couple of days and to think how I treated the ones I love the most. As I evaluated my words and actions I learned I have a lot to learn and do to ensure the ones I love know that I love them.
Then today a girl at work who frequently annoys me was really annoying me. She is constantly trying to show off and be the center of attention. When I announced last year that I was pregnant she had just told people that she was not ready to be a mother yet. Yet 8 weeks later she was pregnant and showing off her ultrasound to everyone.
Today she was showing off pictures of how they painted the nursery. She was intent on making sure everyone in the office saw them and that no one felt left out. When she asked if I wanted to see them I first got mad because I felt like she was just trying to rub it in my face that she is prego and that I am not. I had written a response to her in my anger then thought I better not. I felt like she was rubbing my face in it but I decided to be the bigger person and not say anything. I hope she was not trying to hurt me and just wasn't thinking of the pain it would cause me.
Also today my friend told me of something really stupid someone said to her brother. It floored me that someone of LDS beliefs, who just returned from a mission could say something so cruel and un-Christlike. It also made me evaluate my words to see if I ever say something that would be un-Christlike or painful to someone else.
I guess this was a lesson I needed to learn because 3 times the Lord was proving a point to me today. Hopefully I can catch on and try to treat others with a little more love.